Who is the Man on the Flying Trapeze?

It's about balance, isn't it? I'm here beating myself up about not being effective/productive enough. My standards are not up to snuff. But whose snuff are we talking about? If it is someone else's, then I am in for a disappointment.

My standards are not low, they are different than many others. I don't have all that life experience of some, but I do have my life experience. In some cases a decade or more than others. It doesn't negate my experience. It makes it mine.

I am not a perfectionist. Life is messy. Bring your own towel. I don't have all your answers. I am searching for my own. The answers are unique to the individual. And it's ok to be ok.